So, I was out getting dinner with some friends this evening. We all had a great time and we headed out to the parking lot. I was out there talking with my friend Hollie just about random stuff and a guy comes towards us. Of course, the first thing anyone probably thinks is “ugh, now they’re going to ask for money” but instead he asked if any of us were going towards the I-10. Technically, neither of us were and we weren’t too keen on having a stranger in our cars either. We told him no and he moved on. We stood out there a few mins more and then headed our own separate ways. As I was leaving I heard this guy ask some other people leaving he restaurant the same question and just being told no. I really didn’t think much of it and proceeded to drive home. I kept on thinking about his situation and how much it much suck to have to ask people for a favor knowing full well they probably think you’re a crazy person. Half way up 32nd St I pulled into a driveway and made the decision to take this guy where he wanted to go. I’ve NEVER done anything like this before but I felt bad for him.
Anyway, I get back to the restaurant and I pull up to the curb and ask him where he needs to go. He says he needs to get to the I-10 so he can try to hitch a ride to Casa Grande. I tell him there’s no way he will be able to get a ride from Baseline and the I-10 to Casa Grande… and then… for some odd reason… I just offer to drive him there. Honestly, I have no idea why I did this but it just happened. He was totally shocked and asked me about 4 times if I was serious (for those of you who don’t know, Casa Grande is about 24 miles from where I currently was). He gets in the car and we’re on our way. He tells me the story about how he got stranded in PHX today and it’s all pretty sad. His older brother was arrested earlier that day and because he didn’t have insurnace on the truck, they impounded it. BTW, this kid was 18. He asked me if he could call his mom to let her know he had a ride back home and I let him use my phone. He had been stranded looking for a ride since 11am that morning. His mom didn’t own a car and couldn’t come and pick him up. After telling me all this he just quited down as we drove down to Casa Grande. About 10 miles into the journey, I look over and he’s totally passed out. The first thing I thought was “oh crap, now I have a sleeping stranger in my car, just great.” hahaha. As we get closer to the Casa Grande exits, I nudge him awake and ask where we need to go. I take him to his mom’s house where she’s actually standing outside waiting for him. He thanks me and asks me if I want him to go and get $10 from his mom to give to me. I tell him it’s alright and that I was glad I could help.
It made me feel good to do something nice like this… although, I wouldn’t recommend that this become a standard practice since you never know what kind of person you could be picking up. There was something that made it seem ok this time, so I wasn’t too worried.
Do you think I was crazy for doing this?